Society must offer more
than despair
By Jakki Jeffs
Interim special
I was in Newfoundland at
a national conference when the story broke on Karen Shoffstaff, a former
Guelph resident who
committed suicide in the
Holiday Inn, Farmington a suburb of Detroit. Found close to Karen's body
was a typewritten letter
signed by her which stated
that Jack Kervorkian and his assistant, Janet Good, were involved in her
death.
Outgoing spirit
I did not know Karen, but
in a situation like this her friends and family paint a picture for us
which gives us a sense of who she
was and just what she meant
to those who loved her and whom she loved. My sense of Karen showed an
independent,
free-spirited, optimistic,
loving and outgoing young woman of great strength who was "a fighter."
If this is an accurate perception,
my question is, what happened that destroyed everything that made Karen,
Karen? With great
humility, I would like to
venture my observations of why the growing acceptance of bringing about
premature death is placing
those already vulnerable
(the dying, the elderly, the disabled and those with chronic disease or
illness) in an even more
precarious position.
In The Guelph Mercury editorial,
August 21, entitled "Learning to respect the Kervorkian Touch," we encounter
one of the
problems. The article itself
was a fairly balanced overview of some of the problems with decisions at
the end of life, but the title
was horrendous and so misleading.
How can we possibly have respect for such a callous, cold-blooded and disordered
individual as Jack Kervorkian,
who has stated that, "the voluntary self-elimination of individual and
mortally diseased or crippled
lives, taken collectively
can only enhance the preservation of public health and welfare." Kervorkian
has also suggested using
infants, children, the severely
disabled and the senile for experimentation adding: "if the subject's body
is alive at the end of the
experimentation, final biological
death may be induced by 'a number of means,' including, 'removal of organs
for transplantation'
or 'a lethal dose of new
or untested drugs to be administered by an official lay executioner.'"
How very sad that Kervorkian's
touch was the last that Karen felt. Another problem was evidenced in the
response which Pat
Rosewell gave to Karen when
she was asked how she felt about physician assisted suicide. Rosewell's
response quoted in the
August 23 Mercury was, "I
think its a personal thing." I don't raise this to make Pat Rosewell feel
guilty as her response
probably reflects what most
people would have replied.
In the abortion issue we
come across a similar response to pregnant women from almost everyone,
even those who father the
child, "It's your choice,"
what each response really says to the individual is, "You are on your own."
Herein lies another problem,
we are told of Karen's independence
and her pattern of withdrawing when she was hurting particularly badly.
This time Karen
asked for input and so accustomed
to the "politically correct" jargon of our day, her call for help, as unusual
and unique as it
was to hear, was not heard.
Even Karen's former husband
said yes, in reply to her question of whether he would see her through
the final act. I am sure he
felt it the most loving
thing he could say, but according to his own words that statement went
against his own heart on the
matter.
We are told that he "couldn't
give up hope that modern medicine would somehow make life for Karen at
least bearable ..." His
'yes' took that hope away
from Karen as our society's yes to acceptance of physician assisted suicide
and euthanasia will strip
that hope from vulnerable
people across Canada.
Little attention
We hear so little of the
marvellous inroads which have been made to treat the very uncomfortable
symptoms of some of these
chronic diseases. The majority
of doctors remain insufficiently trained and educated in pain management,
to offer the latest
regiments.
We are overloaded with the
indignities and horrors of what one might expect down the road from chronic
and terminal illnesses.
Where does that leave Karen
and those like her who are facing this long road? Let me tell you, it leaves
them flying to monsters
like Jack Kervorkian, and
that must change.
We must all take some responsibility
for the theft that left Karen at the end, robbed of her enthusiasm, her
optimism, her fighting
spirit and finally her life.
Kervorkian's touch is despair, our society must not leave such a cold and
bitter legacy to future
generations.
(Jakki Jeffs is executive
director of Alliance for Life, Ontario).
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