On being pro-life
By Dean Rideout
The Interim
Over the last 100 years, a number of developments have changed society
forever, such as the abolition of slavery and the expansion of women's
rights. These changes have had to do with freedom and choice. But there
is one thing many people believe there should still be no choice about
- abortion.
Abortion needs to stop. Taking this stance is called being pro-life;
however, it is also a challenging stance to take in a secular society.
On the other hand, there are many rewards that come with being pro-life,
including saving the lives of unborn children and having morals that
have been forged through time and with beliefs.
By choosing life, one automatically places oneself in the minority.
The pro-life group at my school, Assumption College School, has 11 members.
In a school of over 700 students, that is very small, indeed. People
are afraid to associate with such a group and be labelled "anti-abortion."
They feel as though it places them in a position where they will be
called on to act against the "status quo." That is something they may
not be able to handle.
There are many times in life when we are called on to be more than
what we are. For me, choosing pro-life is about taking a definitive
stand for what I believe is right.
Believing in yourself and standing for your beliefs is challenging.
There is a vocal "pro-choice" contingent of people, as well as many
others who are unwilling to rebel against something as wrong as abortion.
Huge corporations and governments discourage the pro-life movement.
A situation like that - a small group of people against an entire society
unwilling to change - could scare anyone.
Finding strength inside oneself is one of the most important things
a person can do. You draw your strength from your passionate belief
that pro-life is the right choice.
Many activists get arrested. Various members of society -including
media and politicians - know that abortion is a sensitive issue and
are often reluctant to take a position. It can be daunting, when one
is faced with situations where emotions and moral values are tested,
to come out with values in hand. But coming through these situations
is one of the rewards of being pro-life.
The biggest reward for me is knowing that I can rely on something when
the going gets tough: my morals. Choosing pro-life, and sticking with
it, is something I can place on my "accomplishments" list. Pro-life
is something I can be sure about that I never have to look back on with
regret. Not only does pro-life give me a belief on abortion, it reaffirms
my beliefs in all areas.
It is refreshing to know that when I make a list of pros and cons about
being pro-life, the pros heavily outweigh the cons. It is also rewarding
to know that I am assisting in saving lives - the essence of being pro-life.
We
can save lives each and every time we assist the pro-life cause in some
way. Whether we hand out pamphlets or discuss the issue at elementary
schools, as my pro-life group has done, we achieve a moral victory.
By informing one person of our cause, even if that person doesn't entirely
agree, we give her something to ponder.
We are the voice of the children yet to be born. We deliver a message
that will save lives. We have a duty and responsibility as citizens
to protect, defend, educate and speak on behalf of the unborn children
who do not have a voice and cannot defend themselves. Their lives will
be our reward.