What the Red Sox win teaches about
fate and fatherhood
Donald DeMarco
The Interim
When 3.2 million people gather together, the largest public gathering
in New England history, to celebrate a baseball victory, you know it
cannot be just about a baseball victory.
Major League Baseball, as every Boston Red Sox fan knows, is a religion.
It has supernatural significance. For 86 years, so it seemed to statistics-intoxicated
Bosox followers, the Red Sox laboured under a curse, one documented
and given currency by sports reporter Dan Shaughnessy in his book, The
Curse of the Bambino. Apparently, according to Red Sox mythology, the
sale of Babe Ruth to the New York Yankees after the 1919 season was
a transaction of such monumental stupidity that the gods had no other
choice than to place a curse on the Boston franchise that would prevent
it from ever winning another World Series championship.
Over
fourscore and six seasons, Red Sox teams laboured valiantly and would
come tantalizingly close to ultimate victory. But as the years droned
on, it became increasingly clear that Boston was acting out a Greek
tragedy, locked implacably in the merciless jaws of fate. And yet, Red
Sox fans, a curious amalgam of fatalism and optimism, continued to root
and sweat and groan and hope.
How can one begin to understand this strange socio-religious phenomenon?
Fans went to dizzying extremes in an attempt to "reverse the curse,"
including the exploits of one stout-hearted gentleman who climbed to
the top of Mount Everest, where he burned a Yankee cap and planted a
Red Sox flag. To be sure, this phenomenon is not just about a baseball
game.
Nor does it have anything to do with Boston. Only Mark Bellhorn, the
Red Sox second baseman who set a franchise record this year with 177
strikeouts, is a native of the Boston area. Only two players came through
the Red Sox farm system: Trot Nixon, who spent most of the year on the
disabled list, and Kevin Youkilis, who did not make an appearance in
the World Series and was excluded from the roster during the series
against the Yankees.
We find a clue to the transcendent importance of this phenomenon when
we listen to Red Sox fans' conversations and read their placards. When
the possibility of a world championship began to present itself once
again, people were talking about how happy it would have made their
deceased fathers. During the mammoth celebration, one fan, representing
many, carried a sign that read: "My dad lived for this." The poster
included a picture of the father and his lifespan - Nov. 26, 1925 to
March 10, 2004 - that poignantly captured the father-to-son, inter-generational
bond that binds fans to their team.
My mother has received a lot of media attention of late. As she approaches
her 100th birthday, she has told press scribes that all she wants for
her centennial event is "a Red Sox World Series championship." She graduated
from grammar school in 1918, the last time the Red Sox were World Series
victors, and recalls her father's devotion to the team. "We could never
talk to him when the game was on," she told media interviewers, "because
it would break his concentration."
There is a religion dynamic to being a Red Sox fan, and it is one that
involves the tension between fate and fatherhood. And how easy it is
to apply this tension to ordinary life. Fate means that we have little,
if anything, to do with the outcome of our lives. Our fate is sealed.
If this is the case, we wonder what the point of our lives can be. Will
our hopes always be dashed? Can we not be an agency directing, or at
least influencing, the outcome of our lives? Indeed, is there any sense
in which our lives are our own?
Fatherhood, on the other hand, is providential. It promises to provide
us with what we need to become ourselves. Every earthly father derives
his fatherhood from the fatherhood of God. Fatherhood means freedom,
flexibility, fortune. Fate is fixed and final. "Fate! There is no fate,"
as Bulwer-Lytton once remarked. "Between the thought and the success,
God is the only agent" (or "execution," as Red Sox hurler, Curt Schilling
maintains).
In the final scene of the movie version of Bernard Malamud's baseball
epic, The Natural, we see legendary Roy Hobbes (Robert Redford) not
being inducted into the Hall of Fame, but in a field happily tossing
a baseball back and forth to his bright-eyed young son. Baseball touched
upon fatherhood, tradition, teaching, and connecting generations. Surely,
a significant part of the Boston celebration is the collective sense
that the fans are not creatures whose fates are fixed, but free human
beings whose fathers have pointed them in the right direction. It means
that we are agents in the pursuit of our destiny.
My three sons were with me when the final out was registered. Then,
I had to call my own father, who is 95 and living in a retirement home.
With apologies to Abraham Lincoln and Ralph Waldo Emerson, allow me
to post my own celebrational gesture in poetic form:
The Shout Heard 'Round the Nation
Four score and a half dozen years ago,
A span of time that teemed with woe,
A curse of desperation
Haunted Red Sox Nation;
But now the torture's over, Babe,
For the comeback that these "Idiots" made
In conquering the Yankees in their yard
And knocking down a House of Cards
Has set their fandom on a roar
And crowned them champs of 2004;
They did not wait for Hell to freeze;
Their flag now flaps to autumn's breeze.
Donald DeMarco, a frequent contributor to The Interim, is a retired
professor of philosophy at the University of St. Jerome's College, Waterloo,
Ont., and the author of numerous books, including, most recently with
Benjamin Wiker, Architects of the Culture of Death (Ignatius).